Having a foreign girlfriend is strange, and being in an interracial relationship can lead to some interesting relationships. In anime and Japanese stories, Japanese girls are portrayed as cute dolls who blink innocently at everything they see. Japanese women are cute, but dating them in real life is nothing like what you see in anime (actually, it depends on what you watch).

Unfortunately, I'm not an expert, so I won't tell you how to get a Japanese girlfriend, but I'll explain what a relationship with a Japanese girlfriend is like based on my experience. The common characteristics of Japanese girlfriends are as follows:

Hygiene

Japanese girls are generally impeccably groomed and well-groomed. If a Japanese girl is interested in you, she will make sure to always be clean and fragrant around the person she is interested in. This habit is unlikely to change even if you are in a long-term relationship.

There's no "I love you"

In Japan, most couples don't talk about or openly express their love for each other. Just because she doesn't express her feelings doesn't mean she doesn't love you. It's common for couples to express their affection by using words like "cute" and "I love you."

Dutch treat

On the first few dates, it's normal to split the bill. Japanese girlfriends usually pay for themselves, and it's not awkward for them. The more in-depth the relationship, the more they may expect the man to pay. However, you can always count on financial support from them.

Makeup

Apparently, it's a social norm for Japanese women to put on makeup before leaving the house. I think this is true for girls everywhere. So no matter how much I try to convince them that a casual stroll in the park doesn't require full makeup, they still make me wait until I'm done.

You're a man

Japanese women are financially stable and independent, but still believe that men are higher in the social hierarchy. This is not a bad thing for women to say about you, but you will not find a feminist perspective among most Japanese women. Men have a say in important decisions.

Politeness

Japanese girls are generally more polite than girls from other countries. Even if they are in love, they don't yell or argue much. In some cultures, arguing between couples is considered healthy, but Japanese girls are obedient and will get angry if you yell at them. They may even cry if you argue harshly. Also, they don't like being told nasty things. Simply avoid it.

present

Japanese female friends often give gifts. This is because of the Japanese culture of giving gifts multiple times a year. They also expect the same from you. If you often forget to give gifts like me, prepare to be scolded by your girlfriend.

Let me hold your wallet

This is something that happens to Japanese couples after marriage, but it's best to be clear about it before actively dating a Japanese woman. In Japanese households, women often run the finances. The husband gives his salary to his wife and receives a daily allowance from her. If this doesn't suit your personality, talk to your fiance before getting married.

Meeting with parents

Meeting your Japanese girlfriend's parents is a clear sign that she intends to marry you one day. For many Japanese women, parental consent is essential for marriage, so if you're considering marrying her, be prepared to make a good impression when you meet her parents.

Utham

Guidable Partner

This article has been partially re-edited by KARUTA from an article originally published in "Guidable."
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